Before we go into the texts, I must explain something… I’ve used all these text today! They are the freshest, most up-to-date texts I’m using at the moment, and I don’t want the girls I used them on to get them posted somewhere regarding the interwebz.
So, this site is hidden. And certainly will most likely not be up for long. (I’m revealing serious classified information!)
Now… onto the texts!
1. Perfect Transition in to the Date Text
A major problem most guys have over text is it: Not knowing how to transition from flirting/talking on text into setting up a night out together! Proposing a date is one of the 3 key ingredients to effective text game (per Magnetic Messaging).
Also, most guys tell a woman way too much over text, destroying any mystery or intrigue that gets women worked up about meeting up for a date. I always tell guys to think about texting as a “movie preview.”
You intend to give her just enough to ensure that she’s curious and excited when it comes to date. (You do not, however, would you like to give her the whole movie on text!) To accomplish this, I devised the most wonderful text:
“Sounds like a good _________ (discussion /debate /conversation) over a glass of wine” In context, you’d use this text whenever a woman asks to find out more about something which interests her and on occasion even challenges you.
Girl: “Whatcha workin’ on?”
Rob: “Doing some writing ATM”
Girl: “Really? As to what?”
Rob: “About something I am able to only inform you of over one glass of wine.”
Rob: “Let’s get together later, around 8, at Blue Martini. Te gusta?”
2. Perfect “Radar Text” to Get Investment
If you don’t understand what a radar text is, then you need to have Magnetic Messaging. As well as eliciting a radar text, sometimes in addition, you want a girl to “invest” some time/ thought/ emotions in to the exchange (especially if she’s gotten a bit distant or cold).
One of the best ways I’ve found to work on this is through pop culture. Go ahead and steal these back-to-back texts to have some positive momentum and investment from girls that are slipping away:
Text 1: “Just made a Spotify playlist titled, “Cool guy music””
Text 2: “Give me some song recs!”
3. Look Important while Giving a Compliment
Readers of Magnetic Messaging know that I adore blurring the line between cockiness and sweetness. The section in Magnetic from the “couple compliment” breaks down precisely how to simultaneously give a compliment while also making yourself look cool in the process.
Likewise, a text not long ago i created that accomplishes an identical effect could be the old “work break” idea: “Need a work break, interested in a cute girl to distract me”
4. Get Some “Yes Momentum”
I’ve found very effective in interacting with women is the idea of “yes momentum.” Once a lady is invested emotionally, often she does not would you like to ruin the vibe by saying no (especially to things you like or enjoy).
As guys, it is often us who get sucked into a girl’s “yes momentum.” ( in the event that you’ve ever said you liked a movie or song simply because a girl said she liked it, elevate your hand…)
***Sheepishly raises hand**** For many of us who understand what it feels like to get swept away by “yes momentum,” you can imagine how powerful it could be if you were in a position to turn the tables to get a girl to agree with all your likes and interest. Particularly if you could parlay that “yes momentum” into a date! (Insert Dr. Evil laugh)
Here’s a good text that suggests a date activity while creating some “yes momentum”:
“Do you smoke hookah*? (Please say yes)”
*Obviously replace your preferred romantic activity.
5. The Shameless Compliment.
If you’ve been on this newsletter for just about any time, you probably know I’m all about expressing my masculine drive in a reputable and transparent way.
In less pretentious terms, I’m about acting… shameless! Once you and a girl are vibing, and especially in the event that you’ve initiated the “turn sequence” through the keylock, then throwing out an over-the-top compliment can dramatically help your chances of meeting up with her.
This text can also be perfect for girls you’ve already been out on a night out together with if not a girlfriend:
Text 1: “Why are you currently hot and ____________*?”
Text 2: “It’s really not fair”
Fill in something (non-physical) about her that you want, for example: “What makes you hot and creative” or “Why are you hot and such a professional of wine”
Well, there you have got it! ( I must confess, I happened to be just a little hesitant to hit send about this email mainly because texts are so sacred in my experience!)
Use these 5 texts wisely and, if you actually want to improve the manner in which you keep in touch with women, have a look at the 3 texts that turn her on and get her out on a date.